Lots to say - so little time to say it in! I'll keep you posted xx All views and opinions my own, unless stated!
Tuesday, 28 December 2021
Mrs. B Challenge 40 - 27 Complete a Penny challenge
Sunday, 26 December 2021
Mrs. Bs Challenge 40 - 30 - Go for a spa day
Mrs. Bs Challenge 40 - 29 - Learn a new skill
Mrs. B Challenge 40 - 23 Complete a reading challenge
I have a ‘highlight’ on Instagram (the small dots on your profile) which contains each book and the score I gave it. I don’t score real life books, because you can’t score someone’s life story.
Tuesday, 21 December 2021
Mrs. B Challenge 40 - 22 - Get a Tattoo
You can find Samo here…. Instagram As well as the tattoos he’s a pretty awesome human and you can keep up with his art and other news here
Here’s some better pictures! I’m sorry my self portraits of my arm can leave a little to be desired!
and there’s another one ticked off the list!
Tuesday, 2 November 2021
Mrs. B Challenge 40 - 8 - Skinny dip in the sea
I’ve been a busy bee this summer and haven’t really had time to write about it, so it feels like all these challenges have been completed at once!
So here we are at challenge number 4.
8. Skinny Dip in the Sea
I have skinny dipped in lots of places, and god only knows why but the sea has never been one of them! I must admit, I haven’t really been much of a sea dweller and even on holiday would not really go in. I love looking at the sea, being near it, hearing it – just not in it! This last year has changed that and I have a new found appreciation of being in that salty water and being fully submerged!
I’m not worried about skinny dipping, or being naked in front of people. We all have bodies, we all have skin, we all have bits we aren’t keen on and hopefully we all have bits we love! I’ve never had an issue being naked, even at my heaviest weight, it really doesn’t bother me. I come from a house hold where bodies and naked is normalised and it has definitely given me a head start with body positivity or body neutrality as I have grown up. I’m also a firm believer that other people’s opinions are none of my business, and if people are talking about me they are giving someone else a rest!
Over the last year I have been meeting once a month on the beach with my moon sisters, and after our full moon ceremony/ritual we tend to go for a dip. Until this year, it has been with swimsuits on, but this year has seen us getting more naked….
This summer, two of my friends have held public ceremonies on the beach for all to join and learn how to run their own circle. I went along to the last one of the year and it was beautiful, my step daughter and best friend came along, as well as my usual moon sisters and some brand new friends I hadn’t met yet.
At the end of the ceremony, once we had burnt all that no longer served us and spent some time drumming on the beach – off we went into the sea. Skinny dipping was optional, so off I went in completely naked! Some came and joined us naked, and those who came into the sea with their swimsuits on, soon removed them in the waves and we were a circle of women naked in the sea – perfect! It was such a lovely evening and such a lovely experience.
Thank you all and there’s another one ticked off the list!
Saturday, 2 October 2021
Mrs. B Challenge 40 - 34 - Make a drum
So here we are at challenge number 3 and I loved this one.
34. Make a drum
I have always wanted to own a drum, but never really knew why! Having spent the last year on the beach at full moon, chanting online and learning more about my spiritual practise – it has become clearer! I have been looking at drums online to purchase, I’ve exhausted etsy and seen some wonders let me tell you. But earlier this year I saw a friend and her husband birthing their own shamanic drums in a river…. That is definitely what I wanted to do!
Having a bit of a rough time, my husband and friend made some magic and I found myself booked in with Pauline to birth my very own drum!
You can find Pauline and her drumming Facebook page
hereI was excited and super nervous. I’m not very hands on creative and was worried what if I messed it up! Well, my friend who was also booked in felt exactly the same, but Pauline put us at ease really quickly.
We met in Droxford and made our way to the River Meon to start our beautiful day. There surrounded by nature, the water and some beautiful souls – we got to work and what an experience it was. We set up an altar with objects from all of us; Pauline and the three of us birthing drums.
We meditated, breathed, gave thanks and prepared! Our drums are made from an Ash hoop and deer skin, so we set about preparing our hoops with oil.
We then all got in the river with our deer skins to soak them, fill them with our intention and giving thanks to the deer.
Then the hard work started! We hand banged the holes for the leather thonging to threaded through.
We stretched the skin over the hoop to make the head of the drum and laced them up at the back to hold it in place.
I have two pieces of rose quartz in the handle hold of mine and I can honestly say I love it!
I am now the proud owner of a drum I birthed myself, met some wonderful friends and had the best day for my soul ❤
On to the next challenge, I’ll keep you posted!
TTFN, Sammy x